Sir Lisa and leathergem

Sir Lisa & leathergem

Sir Lisa is a GenderQueer, Trans-masculine Sadistic Leather Master (he/him/they) and his slave leathergem, a queer leather femme (she/her)
Their life is Master/slave TPE – structured in protocols, rituals, and is entirely permission based in all matters of life. They are dedicated to each other’s growth and spiritual enlightenment within their M/s dynamic and leather journey. Sir Lisa is the Co-Director of MAsT Tampa and leathergem secretary/treasurer. Together they created the “Living in Leather” group which is paramount in education and mentoring and are also managers at the Tampa Bay Phoenix Club.
Facebook: @Sirandgem
Email: [email protected] Fetlife: Sir_Lisa and leathergem


Leather is a path. BDSM is the scenery

It’s a unique path of discovering who you are embedded with rich history, an empty slate that each one of us fills with what is of importance to us individually. We will discuss how to find a voice for your path, how Leather can expand your life and your relationships as well as the importance of owning who you are and being unapologetic for it. It’s the camaraderie and the strength of community, the unity of our Leather brothers and sisters. It’s about the consistency of creating styles, protocols and teaching traditions to keep Leather alive for today and future generations to walk their journey of Leather.


The Inner Workings of a M/s Relationship

We all bring diversity to the M/s dynamic but the common goals are obedience, expectations and communication. In this class, we will uncover the meaning of building a driven protocol dynamic that distinguishes fantasy vs reality. How living 24/7 as M/s is not impracticable but doable with diligence and vision that can bring practical protocols and rituals to the table that will fulfill us and build our relationship up and not watered down.