Presenter Bios & Workshop Descriptions
A_Midnight_Angel
Bio
Midnight Angel (she/her) possesses a rich experience spanning over 27 years in the BDSM Poly lifestyle, with a specialization in bi-poly dynamics. Her passion for education in this field is evident through her numerous engagements on various topics related to the lifestyle.
In addition to her extensive community involvement, Midnight Angel was honored as Ms. Florida Leather N Fetish Pride 2017. She has formerly been an active member of the Hard Pink Sisterhood and continues to lend her support to both HPSH and Onyx Pearls. Her contributions to events such as the SouthEast LeatherFest, Florida Power Exchange, and Beyond Leather underscore her dedication.
Midnight Angel’s educational endeavors include conducting sessions at national events such as Florida Leather Fetish Pride (FLFP), Fetish Con, DomCon, Women of Leather Florida (WOLF), Mr. Code, EPIC, Florida Power Exchange (FPE), SouthEast LeatherFest (SELF), and Kinky Camp Out (KCO). Furthermore, she holds the esteemed position of Contest Director for FPE, which is a Feeder to Beyond Leather which is held in the spring annually.
Her accolades also include serving as a judge for Florida Leather N Fetish Pride and Florida Puppy contest, as well as performing the role of a Tally Master. As a testament to her contributions and influence, she is recognized as Mama’s Midnight Angel within Mama Sandy Reinhardt’s Family.
Beyond her educational pursuits, Midnight Angel is known for her sociable nature, always keen on forging new connections and cherishing established ones.
Workshops
Caring is Golden (Before & Aftercare)
We have all heard that Aftercare is essential to most of us who play in public or even at home behind closed doors. How about Before Care? Come and learn how to provide before and aftercare to both the D and S type and how to care for each other long after the play is done. Caring is Golden!
Flameless Candle Waxing
Come and have fun with candle waxing, yes this is banned at 90% of play spaces and events because of a fire hazard, however this candle waxing does not require a flame, so come and learn how to have fun with a flameless candle, and learn how to make it easy to clean without destroying the play area or ruining equipment.
Alan
Bio
Alan has been kinky since childhood, and has been working to improve his skills since. He has been a member of Discipline Corps Dallas since 2010. He spent six years as club President and continues to serve on the board, as well as maintaining active membership and/or leadership roles within the Chicago Hellfire Club, Austin Gears, and several other clubs nationwide. He attends, plays, and teaches at kink events around the country, and can often be found on the Dungeon team. He was an IML 2022 judge and enjoys helping contestants prepare. He has an extensive history working with LGBTQ+ organizations both on staff and in the trenches.
Workshops
Flogging 101 – Flogging safely and effectively
As a top, creating a good foundation using stance and a consistent arm swing can help bring safety and precision to your flogging. Positions for the bottom also improve safety and can help your bottom relax into a flogging. This class will cover how to be safe, what to be careful of, body mechanics, negotiation, and teach several techniques that will help you be consistent.
Punching and Slapping Scenes
Punching scenes can be fun, but they have some important safety concerns. We’ll cover where it’s safe to hit, areas to avoid, ways to punch safely, techniques to increase your impact with less work, safety equipment, bracing (when to, when not to), and take a look from a medical perspective. Slapping can be a warmup for punching, or a scene in its own right. There are some fun techniques that can enhance that play, and a few safety tips to watch out for. You should leave this class with some new techniques to explore and enjoy, including some tips for using both surface impact and a deeper transfer of momentum.
Advanced Flogging Techniques
There is no one true way to throw a flogger - but there are many ways to add techniques to your flogging skillset. This class will take a look at flogging from a martial arts perspective - ways to add both more control and more oomph, without necessarily having to work harder. It will cover aspects of momentum and energy transfer, and how to use surface impact versus hits felt deeper in muscle tissue. Pacing, timing, the use of rhythm and broken rhythms are all tools that can help increase the mental journey for the bottom without having to always ramp up physical impact alone.
AtxGentleDom
Bio
ATXGentleDom developed a love for impact and fear play almost as soon as he started exploring BDSM a decade ago. He is known as a heavy sadist, using barbed wire, scalpels and a whole lot of plastic wrap in his play. He is low-protocol Dom, his style of play is light and playful, where laughter is a must. As a former paramedic, you can imagine he's seen all sorts of crazy things. He brings that experience to the lifestyle by knowing what constitutes a "real" emergency, not getting too worked up about things, and using that knowledge and experience to ensure a safe environment for play and the ability to handle whatever emergencies may arise. He has taught for multple groups in austin, the GWNN BASH, and SPLF
Workshop
But Did You Die? A discussion of edge play in BDSM
AtxGentleDom is known as an edge player, using anything from barbed wire to bone saws in his scenes. This class will explore everything from the risks, the rewards and the intimate connections created through edge play. From needles and knives to blood play and waterboarding, edge play does not have a standard definition and varies from both person to person and scene to scene. Together, we will dive into the different styles of play as well as the importance of informed consent, physical and emotional safety and legal risks that may be present
Barbie
Bio
Barbie is a queer, polyamorous, bottom leaning switch with a passion for the "why's" in life. She joined the Austin kink scene in 2018 as a rope bottom and quickly found that there was so much to learn!
Over time, Barbie found she primarily identifies as an intense sadomasochist, a major brat, and her Sir's slave. In other words - a menace. She also continues to seek as much BDSM education as she can.
Barbie is a member of Bat City Leather, her local group, and is currently on a side quest to determine if she IDs as Leather. She is also a team lead for GWNN BASH, one of Austin's annual kink conventions.
Workshop
Through the Looking Glass: Changing Perspectives in Power Exchange
Many of the more common rules and protocols in power exchange exist because of tradition. What do you do if tradition for tradition's sake just doesn't resonate with you? Instead of struggling to accept something that doesn't make sense for you, let's flip it on its head. Step through the looking glass with me to discuss evaluating rules and protocols from a different perspective - one that seeks to put feelings and desired outcomes above tradition.
Beast & echo
Bios
Beast (He/Him) is full of surprises. A Gentleman and a Beast, He’s a Lakota/German, pansexual, polyamorous Leatherman, a Master, puppy, ritual piercer, rigger, pyromancer, biker, musician, storyteller and Cigar Daddy.
Born and raised in England, echo (she/they) is a pansexual, polyamorous Leatherwoman, slave, switch, little, kitten, and sugar glider mum. echo enjoys mind-fucks, socio-cultural theory, and crochet.
International Master/slave 2022, Beast and echo are raising 3 children in beautiful Colorado with their partner Liv.
Workshops
M/s CHALLENGE
It’s no secret that power exchange dynamics can be difficult to build and maintain. The secret often seems to be “why?”. What is it that those in successful dynamics have figured out? Often it comes down to building a solid foundation based on your personal values rather than the contract you found on google or what sounded sexy when you wrote it up. In this class, attendees will have the opportunity to hear both the Master/Dominant and the slave/submissive perspectives on building and adopting a values-based power exchange dynamic. Beast (he/him) and echo (she/her) will discuss the tools and tricks they used to create a strong and sustainable dynamic, as well as many of the ways they found that did not work for them. This class is an interactive discussion, and attendees need not be in any specific dynamic or in any relationship at all to attend and enjoy the class.
TUNE-IN AND TUNE-UP
There are times when a major overhaul is needed, but often a simple tune-up can mean the difference between enjoying the road you’re on and breaking down alongside it. Think of these tune-up tips as one of those lifehack videos but for relationships. They might seem like common sense, but common sense is not always common practice. In this session, Beast and echo will share some of the simplest yet most powerful “hacks” we’ve found, and a few that nearly left us stranded.
Bee
Bio
I have been an active member of the DFW kink scene since April of 2021. Over the last 3 years, I have volunteered at 4 Leatherfests (OKLF 2022-2023, BV2023, SPLF2024) Cocktails and Corsets, DFW Dungeon and am running registration at OKLF2024. I joined NLA at the last BV. I am currently on the management team at DFW dungeon. Serving the community is near and dear to my heart. The desire to help my peers and give them tools to keep themselves safe motivated me to create my boundaries class. I have been in the mental health field since 2015. I have taught people of all ages and mental capacities about healthy boundaries throughout my career. I thought what a better place to share that knowledge than with my community.
Workshop
Boundaries and Kink
Bee is a mental health professional and an active member of the Dallas kink scene. She has spent years educating people from all walks of life on what boundaries are, how to set boundaries and how to uphold boundaries. This is a life skills class that everyone of all experience levels can benefit from. This class will explain boundary setting in a general sense and then how they apply specifically to the kink space. Having trouble saying no? Does people pleasing have you in a nonconsensual choke hold? Come see Bee about Boundaries!
boy/bear Kage
Bio
boy/bear Kage der Grünbär (dehr GROON-bayr) is a bottom-leaning Vers-switch leather boy, pet BEAR, and pet handler from Dallas. He was Mr. Texas Bear Round Up 2018 and in 2019 he became the “Bear-triach” of the Route 66 Leather Bear family.
He is a founding member of the Texas Puppy Club, Vice President of the Lonestar boys of Leather, and an active member of the DFW Kennel Club and the Dallas Bears. Kage serves as the education and small group activities Team Lead for Texas Bear Round Up (TBRU), the largest and longest running charity bear weekend in North America, where he has lead the charge to bring pet play, education, and other kinks to the back to bear runs. As a part of the Dallas Bears and TBRU, Kage has helped raise and donate over $500,000 to local LGBTQ charities over the last 5 years.
In 2023, Kage started a Facebook Group and Telegram chat, AlternaPets United!, for non-pup focused pet players to network, share experiences, and to advocate for multi-species inclusion and representation in critter and pet play spaces.
His flag positions vary based on color and partner, but his favorites include:
Left: Hunter Green and Rope
Middle (Left and Right): Teal, Red, Gray, Black, Blue, White, Mosquito Netting, and Houndstooth
He lives with his Sir Spence and is a self-proclaimed nerd who loves fantasy, sci-fi, anime, and horror. In his spare time, Kage enjoys working on kinky leather craft projects in his Kinkery and playing video or board games with his chosen family, Haus Hamiewert.
Workshop
Critter Play Discussion Panel
Does pet play look hot but you don’t identify with being a pup or handler? Have you ever been to a pup mosh or bar night and felt lost or left out? Gallop, trot, swim, prance, hop, or flap your way to this roundtable discussion where we will talk about pet play for critters who pet play a different way. We will discuss pet/critter play options, share stories of how we found our petsonas, how this changes D/s and pack/group dynamics, and increasing multi-species visibility and representation in the wider pet/critter play community.
Celina
Bio
Celina, the 2023 Show Me Leather Little, has been an integral part of the community since 2017. Proudly identifying as both a little and kitten, she embarks on her title year with a purpose. With a fervent desire to destigmatize ageplay, she aims to educate and bridge the diverse ageplay communities across Missouri. Radiating warmth and openness, she welcomes newcomers, while tirelessly advocating for inclusive spaces for growth and learning. Celina's vibrant presence fosters unity and acceptance, ensuring littles' voices resonate at every event. Celina's life philosophy revolves around embracing each day with boundless joy, unwavering curiosity, and an unwavering desire to make a positive impact. Her diverse professional background allows her to offer a wide range of classes, conversations and presentations, ensuring that she caters to a variety of interests and needs.
Workshop
Silent Symphony: The Nonverbal Little Adventure Game
What happens when you as a bottom goes silent during play? What can you do to actively negotiate and communicate with your partner(s)? What caused you top go silent? Through engaging activities and exercises, folx will develop a deeper understanding of the power of nonverbal cues, body language, and expressive communication. We will discuss how to navigate the 'board game' of nonverbal communication through the land of negotiations, the sea of scenes, the dark forest of dynamics and more.
This class aims to enhance interpersonal skills, empathy, and self-awareness while fostering an appreciation for the richness of nonverbal communication.
Charlie Doll
Bio
Since 2017, Charlie has been an active member of the Salt Lake City Leather community and proudly holds the title of Rocky Mountain Person of Leather for 2022-2024. Identifying as a leatherboi slave, Charlie is a sex worker and BDSM educator with a diverse range of interests, from being a Bimbo to blood play. Xe are a sadomasochistic switch who is enthralled with edgeplay. One of Charlie’s passions is fostering inclusive spaces and facilitating uncomfortable conversations. Charlie founded Bimbos of Utah, designed the Bimbo +variants pride flag as well as the genderqueer boys and girls of Leather Pride flag +variants, and runs Utah Leaf and Leather. He’s also affiliated with groups like PLAID, Utah Ageplay Scouts troop 136, and the BDSM Educational Center. If you’re curious, check out the Utah Doll House - a Leather space and Dungeon that it owns and operates with its polyamorous family.
Workshops
Neo-Queer and Cyber-Queer Culture
Are you intrigued by the ever-changing landscape of queerness? Have you ever wondered about the significance of new flags and jargon? Maybe you find yourself questioning the relevance of these developments. Do you feel a desire to better understand the multitude of new pronouns? In a world where bridging the generation gap and establishing trust with today's youth can be challenging, how can you ensure a sense of security for your own legacy?
The Modern Slave
Modern technology and society have had a substantial impact on our community. Together, we will explore how Master/slave dynamics have evolved, and what characteristics have changed. Some of what we will discuss will include what is a slave in this modern context, how can the institution of consensual slavery fit into modern society, and what unique challenges do M/s dynamics face now, including managing long-distance dynamics. While there are many new challenges to Master/slave relationships, there are also many tools that we have available to help us to navigate them.
Daddie Danger
Bio
Daddie Danger is the current Ms. World Bear 2022 and 2023, Queen of the Bears. She is an educator, queer leather woman, and glitter bear. Danger is an active member of the Austin, Texas scene for 20+ years. Danger Co-Directs Dark Age Play-Austin, and is a patched member of her leather family LHC-Austin. She is a board member of GWNN (Group With No Name) and a member of SADE. Danger volunteers with the aGLIFF - Austin Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, Octopus Club supporting HIV+ communities, ASHWell Clinic and various food security efforts. Danger is the former Outreach Director for Team Friendly-Austin and Coordinator of Poly Big Fun for 6 years, the longest running polyamorous campout in Texas.
Workshops
So you want to be a title holder?
So what are titles all about? How do I choose what to run for? What do you mean “compete”? We’re going to talk about what to expect when you’re running for a title from selection of the contest to what to do directly after you win or not.
Darker Age Play
Darker Age-Play - Darker age-play is BDSM edge-play involving one or more persons who may be in a an age-regressed state engaged in higher risk activities that may challenge the concepts of safe, sane, and consensual. This may include activities such as blood-play, fire-play, breath-play, electro-play, interrogation, humiliation and degradation and other edgier activities in tandem with age-play.
Derek-
Bio
Derek has been a part of the BDSM and Leather lifestyle since finding the scene in Denver Colorado 16 years ago. Under the mentorship of Leo, owner of Beyond Piercing, he honed his skills as a needle top and developed a taste for particularly sadistic scenes. At the same time, he gave back to his community and managing parties at The Sanctuary. In 2017, life brought him to Salt Lake City, Utah. Just a year later, he ran for Rocky Mountain Person of Leather 2018. With fierce competition, he came in as runner-up and continued his advocacy for members of the community giving back. A couple weeks before International Person of Leather, he was notified that the titleholder had stepped down and didn't hesitate to step up and put together an impressive run for the competition even though there was scant time to prepare. Derek has taught classes on needles, kink on a budget, and negotiating with a creative sadist to organizations throughout Utah, Colorado, Texas, Saskatoon, Los Angeles, Wyoming, and Las Vegas.
Workshop
Needle Fuckery
While experience is not needed to enjoy or squirm at demonstrations, this is an intermediate class and does not cover basic safety protocols. Explore nerve stimulation techniques and effective methods for guiding participants in and out of headspace.
Demos dependent on available bottoms and may include suturing and saline inflation.
Diamond Dave
Bio
Diamond Dave began his kink journey in 2005 for the sake of a new partner. He soon realized all of this was more than just play, it was a calling - a way of life.
After first focusing on Rope and Shibari, Dave started focusing on fire play in 2008 as often as he was able. Dave is a graduate of the 2011 Dallas Mentors Program, a DMP mentor from 2013-16, and skills teacher for fire play from 2013-19.
Though out of the public scene for the past few years (Thanks Covid!), Dave is excited to be returning to teaching and presenting again. Dave believes Mastery of other (skills, people) begins with Mastery of self.
Workshop
The Consent Triangle
Consent is formed of 3 key elements - Capacity, Understanding, and Assent. I will detail and expand on these concepts with examples and legal precedent.
Doctor Bubbles
Bio
Doctor Bubbles and KitKat Ann met at Beyond Vanilla in 2018, and found a kindred spirit in each other. Since then, they have gone from playmates to best friends, and eventually established an M/s dynamic and romantic partnership together. Their dynamic is based on integrity, trust, respect, growth, balance, and improving the world around them. In 2021, they were named the Texas Power Exchange titleholders and went on to be named the 2022 International Power Exchange titleholders. As titleholders, they view it their duty to help promote positive and healthy power exchange dynamics.
“The place between your comfort zone and your dream is where life takes place.” – Helen Keller
Workshops
To Err is Human: Sharing Kinky Fuck-Ups
The longer that one practices kink and BDSM, the greater the chance that they make a mistake. Mistakes are okay... as long as we learn from them! The best way to learn from our mistakes is to be open and honest about them, understand how they happened, and work to prevent those circumstances in the future. In this roundtable discussion, we will share some of the fuck ups we have had in our kink journeys. This is a way to destigmatize failure as something to be afraid of, and realize that failure is the beginning of wisdom, not the end of it.
Breathless: Breath Play 101
First, let's understand that Breath Play is one of the most dangerous forms of edgeplay in BDSM. As such, this is not a beginner class; it is a class for those who have a good basis in Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Breath play is not and will never be completely safe... but we can minimize the risk of things going wrong. In this class, Doctor Bubbles and Kitkat Ann go into mitigating the inherent risks of Breath Play through education, preparation, and planning for emergencies. We will go into how to prep for a scene, physical factors that increase or decrease risk, how to prepare for the worst, and how to ease into breath play. Finally, Doc and Kitkat will demo a few techniques that deliver the enjoyment of breath play while also keeping risks to a minimum. We will not be covering chokes or chokeholds covered in Rough Body Play classes, but discussing how to limit oxygen flow to the bottom.
E.I. Saint
Bio
E.I. Saint (He/They) is a being composed of primarily oxygen, carbon, hydrogen, nitrogen, calcium, and phosphorus equipped with an energy force that allows him to masquerade as a human. He is Lawful Evil, Slytherin, an INTJ, a Kitty, Andro-Demisexual, Pan-romantic, Pan-kinky, and Leather. Former president of Dallas Discipline Corps and associated with many other clubs over the past 15 years. E.I. Saint has taught from Seattle to St. Louis on topics that are generally considered irreverent and edgy.
Workshop
When Gremlins Meet Unicorns: Embracing Unique Dynamics in BDSM Relationships
"When Gremlins Meet Unicorns" is an enlightening workshop tailored to explore the vibrant spectrum of diverse relationships within the BDSM community, particularly focusing on relationships that are uncommon or seem abnormal from the outside. How does a gay man serve a queer non-binary AFAB? This class is designed to deepen understanding and appreciation of unique BDSM pairings, highlighting the importance of communication, mutual respect, and boundary-setting.
Participants will delve into topics including identity recognition, the impact of non-traditional dynamics on power exchange, and strategies for nurturing a healthy relationship despite differing personal and cultural backgrounds. The course will offer a mix of theoretical knowledge, personal testimonials, and interactive discussions, creating a rich learning environment that caters to both newcomers and seasoned practitioners.
This workshop is perfect for those seeking to expand their perspectives on BDSM dynamics or to better understand and articulate their own non-conventional relationships. With an emphasis on inclusivity and respect, attendees will gain valuable insights and practical tools to help foster fulfilling and respectful BDSM relationships.
Presented by Sirena and Saint as a Team.
Fanon and Carwyn Apodochi
Bio
Ms. Fanon and Bootblack Carwyn came into the community via pup play in 2015. Both switches life and play can get real interesting! Fanon enjoys performing for a variety of fundraisers and being at the stands watching Bootblack Carwyn do his thing. Ms. Fanon was Ms. Great Plains Olympus Leather in 2018. Bootblack Carwyn was South Central community bootblack 2018 and runner up for ICBB 2018. Carwyn enjoys spending time on the stand and making leather look great! They enjoy knife play, bondage, impact play, putting things in holes, needle play, and boot play.
Workshops
Put a Boot in it
Type of class; Demo, lecture
Class Description: do you like boots? Do you want to know how to incorporate them into other hankies. Join Bootblack Carwyn and Ms. Fanon as they put a boot into boot sex, stomping, breath play, bondage, edge play, squirting, weight play, and many more!
Disabled and Kinky
Come join Ms.Fanon and Bootblack carwyn for a round table discussion on being disabled and kinky. Share with us your tips, tricks, and coping skills and we’ll share ours. We will cover pre play, during play, aftercare, speaking to medical professionals, as well as daily living in a lifestyle relationship.
Guard Bear Arthur
Bio
The DFW Sisters exist as a modern, communal order of 21st century nuns dedicated to community service, fund raising, outreach, advocacy, education for safer sex awareness, and to promoting human rights, respect for diversity and spiritual enlightenment. We believe all people have a right to express their unique joy and beauty and we use humor and irreverent wit to expose the forces of bigotry, complacency and guilt that chain the human spirit. We vow to promulgate omniversal JOY and expiate stigmatic guilt through public manifestation and habitual perpetration.
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GRWDFWSPI (Get Ready With the DFW Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence)
The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and the leather community have worked together since our founding in 1979. Join the Sisters as we manifest, talk about our history and how we work with the leather community to promulgate omniversal JOY and expiate stigmatic guilt. Don't worry, we'll leave the glitter at home.
Hardy Haberman
Bio
Longtime LGBTQ+ activist and BDSM educator, Hardy is the winner of numerous awards for his work and activism. A member of the leather community since the mid1970s he is known for his intense scenes and quirky attitude. His books on leather and kink are available on Amazon.com. He is former chairperson of the Woodhull Foundation and a columnist for Drummer. Dallas Voice and Leslie Magazine.
Workshops
Negotiation and Seduction
In the kink community we pride ourselves on our communication skills, yet often negotiating a scene becomes a cold businesslike transaction. The idea that negotiation is really foreplay can create a much richer experience and move into the realm of seduction. Done well, that negotiation is a dance of give and take and a teasing conversation of what both parties expect and more importantly desire.
Owning Your Kink - Living authentically in a Vanilla World
Should you keep your kink in the closet? Should you come out? To who and when and what are the benefits? More importantly, what are the hazards? Exploring these questions and more lead to living authentically. Authenticity does not mean parading your kink down Main Street, but it does mean thoughtful self examination and coming to terms with it.
Part lecture and part discussion, this workshop will help kinky folk better decide how to negotiate their path in a predominately Vanilla world
Hunter
Bio
Hunter is a queer grayromantic FTM Service dog, babypup, Fox and Hyena. While currently residing in Oklahoma, he is very active in their community and is the current Co-Chair Alpha of Paws and Claws Oklahoma, a Pet and Handler group. Their favorite thing to do in the community is being able to help out with events by being a service/demo bottom for classes and getting to meet new critters. His passion for teaching includes the complexities of neurodivergency and petplay along with showing others what different play is like from the bottom perspective.
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Can You Handle Me?
Are you a pet or critter that likes following instructions or likes to be made to? This discussion will go over the red and green flags of finding a Handler, Tamer, Alpha or just an authoritative figure to scratch that itch of obedience.
J Baby
Bio
J Baby is International Leatherboy 2019, 2020, 2021, 2022, 2023, and 2024 & South Central Leatherboy 2019. He was always curious about the forbidden, and that search for the peculiar and the internet led him to the magical world of the kinky. In 2007 he explored and took his first baby steps into a different scene and began his journey as a Leatherboy. Despite protests, he refused to "put away childish things" and is proud to be a Leather little boy. He enjoys serving in whatever way that is, as well as finding any excuse for cuddles. He has presented for events and organizations across the country. He has also served as a Judge, Judge's boy, and Emcee for a number of contests and events as well. Including being the Leather Ambassador for CAPCon. He is a member of Oklahoma Leather Association and an Associate Member of the Lonestar Boys of Leather. When having to be out in the "vanilla" world, he spends most of his time working in the theatre, teaching, gaming, and watching far too much YouTube.
Workshops
Alternative Bigs
When we think of littles and their Bigs we usually think of Mommies and Daddies, or other kind of soft cuddly Caregivers. But what about those that end up Bigs that aren't so... gentle? What if you've been a "big scary Leatherman" for years and are now expected to care for a little? What does that mean? How do you find the right fit to take care of your charge without having to be something you aren't? We'll discuss other Big/little dynamics like Professor/Student, Superhero/sidekick, and others and discuss how to find what works for you.
The Omega Sub
For those submissives who find themselves in Houses or Families where there are multiple subs, it can be difficult to find your place. Especially if you're not anywhere near an "Alpha" whether because you're new, maybe you need more help, or many reasons, you might find yourself as an "omega". This is a workshop to help find strength in that and find your niche. Submission is not a one size fits all box.
JimJam
Bio
JimJam started in kink around 2017. After attending his first leather convention, finding cigars, blood and all the fun sadistic things in between, he started to branch out and learn all he could. The Dallas community has helped a lot in his education on top of conventions and general exploration. He is the dominant to Hellfire, who is always eager to bottom and be his victim.
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Chaos rope- tying without purpose
Striving for symmetry and comfort with rope is beautiful and rewarding. Connection can even happen with nearly no knowledge, just intent. Using friction and tension, we can still wrap a body and give sensation, connection, and fun. Bring a bottom or yourself ready to tie chaotically.
Lady D
Bio
Greetings. Many of you know me but for those of you who do not; my name is Reverend Deborah Harrison but I am better known as Lady D. I am a Lifestyle Domme and the owner of D&S Lifestyles Inc. I am an ordained Minister, a Spiritual Life Coach, a Master Hypnotherapist and a Reiki Practitioner. I truly believe in holistic healing of mind, body and spirit. In all of these capacities; I counsel and help those in complimentary lifestyles acknowledge their divine nature and accept who they truly are. I was the leader of P.E.P Atlanta (People Exchanging Power), a pansexual support and social organization that hosted weekly discussions and demonstrations and a safe play space to help educate those interested in power play relationships. I created PEP4POC (People Exchanging Power for People of Color), an inclusionary group created to Enlighten, Empower and dispel myths and misconceptions concerning BDSM and People of Color. I founded OPSE (Onyx Pearls Southeast) and also helped to relaunch OPSE in 2015. Onyx Pearls Southeast is the sister organization to the Southeast Men of Onyx and many Onyx Pearls chapters have been birthed since. I was Ms.(SCSL) Southern Coastal States Leather from 2000 to 2012. I have also presented many classes, emceed and judged many contests and given keynote and endnote speeches.
My vision has evolved since I first entered this Leather lifestyle journey over 35 years ago. In the beginning, my dream was to create an atmosphere of education and comfort regardless of gender or sexual orientation. P.E.P. began as a heterosexual group with little to no tolerance and through the years it evolved to include all and developed a community consciousness. P.E.P was always about sharing my home to create a family atmosphere, mingle, learn and enjoy one another. My path now is to continue to educate and enlighten and to help bring healing to those doing detrimental and destructive things in our community and the world at large. I want to help them heal and achieve dignity, acceptance and live up to their full potential. I am now free to educate, share my knowledge and mentor those who have a sincere hunger and thirst for this lifestyle. I can also perform ministerial duties such as counseling, weddings, baptisms and commitment ceremonies. My personal pledge is to help make this community better and stronger and to continue Jill Carter’s philosophy of “Each One, Teach One”. I will continue to serve in whatever capacity that I am needed. If you would like me to teach, judge a contest, be a guest speaker, etc. please reach out. Please remember to give your money, your time and your love to all of those in this community that selflessly give to you. I am eternally grateful to those that have helped me in my journey and now I just want to have the opportunity to ‘pay it forward’.
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Female Mastery
Discussion on what is a Female Master and how if it does differ from male mastery.
Leo Gauge
Bio
Leo Gauge has been living radically and authentically since 1988.
His passion for piercing, body modification, and other manipulations of the flesh knows no bounds. He is always eager to share his knowledge with others, from basics to intensives to one-on-one mentoring and sacred rituals. He is especially passionate about topics such as service, blood play, energy, recovering from addiction, and emphasizing practical applications. Leo is an educator at heart and has been educating on kink since 1997, and is also the founder and owner of Beyond Piercing.
Many would tell you that Leo is approachable, straightforward, kind, innovative, and able to teach folx from wherever they may be in their journey. He is Leather, spiritually focused, Owner, heavy sadist, disabled, and trans-masculine identified. He believes that learning is a lifelong process and is constantly seeking new experiences. Leo enjoys that every day he is given the opportunity to remember that he is human and laughs at himself often.
Workshops
Elementary Play Piercing 101
Are you intrigued or tantalized by the idea of sinking a needle into your partner’s flesh? Want ot learn how to create a safer space to play with needles? This is the perfect class for you! This class is for those who are brand new or fairly new to play piercing whether you are wanting to pierce or be pierced. Join us as we go over the basics of what goes into this kind of blood play. Topics covered include sharp safety, play piercing essentials, self-piercing, and basic anatomy. Come get comfortable in exploring the many sides of needle play! We welcome all degrees of interest in piercing
Creative Play Piercing 201
You know how to pierce, now what? In “Creative Play Piercing 201”, Leo takes participants on a creative journey of what to do with a needle once it penetrates flesh. While this class does not cover advanced piercing locations, participants can expect new ideas and demonstrations on how to take your play to the next level, including incorporating other implements and elements into your piercing play. Some topics covered include different kinds of needles, predicament, sensation, bondage, and artistic elements. This class welcomes all levels of play piercing experience!
Mama Gail
Bio
Mama Gail (she/her) is based in Tulsa where her love of leather/Levi found a place. She is Women's International Leather Legacy 2018 and passionate about creating #LovingLeatherSpaces wherever she goes. Gail has been leathering and roping and club boarding and presenting and title holding and all the things for a while now. Today she find herself balancing building a business, empty nesting, and enjoying ethical and supportive relationships.
Mama Gail as won awards, accolades, pantheon nominations, and even a few haters. She comes with disclaimers. She drops a lot of F-bombs. The honorific of "Mama" was bestowed lovingly by a drunk weatherman at the Eagle, and it stuck. She has a snarky streak and her mind is filth. Flags grey on the left.
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What Consent Really Looks Like
CW: Consent Violation / Sexual Assault / Gaslighting
Consent is foundational to all in the BDSM community. We talk about it a lot. But what does that look like in LIVE ACTION?
Join us as Mama Gail (and her consensual demo bottom) show us how to give/gain consent throughout a scene, and where things cross a line. There will be a short demo, discussion about what occurred int he demo, followed by open discussion about other potential scenarios where consent is given or violated.
Whether you are brand new, or you've been kinking for decades, there are nuances in this demo that everyone can learn to be a safer, consensual player.
Consent and Personal Safety/Responsibility: This demo and discussion includes Consent Violation / Sexual Assault / Gaslighting content. Self-care and consent are of the utmost importance, so you won't be asked to do anything without your consent. You will not be peer-pressured to participate, and you won't offend anyone by leaving at any time.
Mara
Bio
A long time ago at a Leather bar far far away, a precocious young Mara donned their tightest jeans, tucked up their hair into a leather baseball hat, jumped on a subway to try to find the kind of men they lusted after on the well worn pages of their stolen copy of Drummer magazine.
Today Mara identifies as an opportunistically omnivorous queer, gender expansive, Slave (with a capital S). They are your International Person of Leather 2024.
Their passion for service and lifetime of being on the right side of the slash has guided their education efforts to design and present classes from and for s-types.
Mara's guiding principles make them a fierce advocate for equity and inclusion efforts that help create spaces for Leather people who don't fit outdated norms, and smashing through gatekeepers when necessary.
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Safety Last - But at least it makes the list - Anatomy of a risk profile
Many people in the community have gravitated to the less judgment-based motto RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) vs SSC (Safe Sane Consensual).
From traditional edge play, CNC dynamics, and even rope suspensions, we understand that nothing we do is inherently safe.
So how can we effectively negotiate and develop a personal risk profile to allow us to engage in these activities?
In this class, we will explore how to understand and mitigate risk, how to negotiate consent for activities where a black/white consent model doesn't work, and how to build a R.I.S.C profile to help navigate the exhilarating, dangerous, and oh-so rewarding, edgier types of play.
Beyond the Binary with Mara & Charlie Doll
Join Mara & Charlie Doll as they explore what it means to live outside of the binary in a community that is not only very gendered but too often doesn't create intentional space for gender expansive folx.
What can individuals and events do to create more inclusive spaces, and how do gender expansive individuals navigate these spaces.
Old Guard Leather - Relic or Relevant?
This class isn’t about what the Old Guard Leather was or to create debate on its history or creation.
Instead, we will examine how the impact of these norms have influenced the Leather subculture’s past, present, and future.
Are these ideas just relics of a bygone era? Are there lessons we can still learn? How do we judge and uphold the cultural norms of 30+ years ago through the lens of a very different worldview.
This class invites introspection and questioning what we as a subculture mean when we say something is Old Guard.
Master Malcolm / Farrah
Bio
Master Malcolm entered the lifestyle in 2007 and began an amazing journey of personal growth, Mastery and Leather. Malcolm is a polyamarous Leatherman, Master, sadist, presenter and producer who is passionate about education and volunteering. Malcolm has had the honor of teaching classes on Power Exchange dynamics, play techniques, and scene creation at many amazing groups around the United States.
Malcolm was involved with Beyond Vanilla for twelve years, he spent the last eight of those years as Co-Director.
Malcolm is currently the Co-Producer of the Texas Power Exchange Contest.
Farrah Bonnot, MS, LPC: Farrah is a therapist and sex educator and member of the kink, LGBTQIA+, and polyamorous communities, who combines extensive education in the field of mental health with lived experience in kink, power exchange and ethical non-monogamy. She is currently pursuing a PhD in Marriage and Family Therapy and her planned dissertation focuses on the critical issue of distinguishing between consensual sadomasochistic relationships and abuse or intimate partner violence.
Through her clinical work, academic research and presentations, she strives to promote a deeper understanding of the complex dynamics involved in BDSM relationships and to help dispel harmful stereotypes and stigmatization of the kink community. With a passion for inclusivity and social justice, Farrah is committed to supporting the well-being and empowerment of all individuals, regardless of their sexual orientation, gender identity, or relationship structure.
Workshops
Power of Consent: Navigating Kink & Power Exchange
Consent is a fundamental principle in BDSM, and it is crucial to understand how it applies in different kink and power exchange dynamics. In this presentation, we'll explore the nuances of consent and how consent functions in various BDSM relationships.
We'll cover the various models of consent, how to find and build a model of consent that works for you, negotiation, communication, and boundaries, and how these concepts intersect with power exchange dynamics. We'll also discuss common misconceptions about consent and power exchange and explore ways to navigate complex consent scenarios in kink and BDSM.
Whether a newcomer to the BDSM community or an experienced practitioner, this presentation is designed to help you deepen your understanding of the role of consent in kink and power exchange. You'll come away with practical tools and strategies for negotiating consent and boundaries with partners and enhancing the safety and enjoyment of your BDSM experiences.
Join Malcolm and Farrah for an engaging and thought-provoking discussion on the power of consent in kink and BDSM.
Effective Communication in Power Exchange: What a strange way to start a conversation
Effective communication is an essential skill for successful Power Exchange.
In this hands-on workshop, we explore fundamentals of effective communication, including active listening, non-verbal communication, and assertiveness. Participants learn how to express themselves clearly, understand others' perspectives, and build rapport with others. We emphasize verbal communication, the importance of tone and adapting communication style to diverse situations. Attendees will learn how to handle difficult conversation, provide feedback, and resolve conflict constructively in a Power Exchange Context.
This class is designed for anyone who wants to improve their communication skills, regardless of experience level. By the end, participants will better understand effective communication, building strong relationships, and the role of communication in achieving their relationship goals. Participants will practice the tools necessary to express themselves clearly, listen actively, and handle challenging situations with confidence.
This is a hands-on workshop where we will be pairing up individuals to practice communication techniques. Please bring a partner, friend, or other person with whom you would like to work on your communication!
Master Malik
Bio
As a student of life, Leather and BDSM, Master Malik is always eager to share his views, thoughts and ideas with any willing people who give him some of their time to listen.
Master Malik has the honor of presenting at many local, regional, national and international events and gathering during the last 25 years, including Beyond Vanilla.
Master Malik is an avid practitioner of old fashion SM and strongly believes in a powerful connection between SM and spiritual realm. He strongly believes with passion about "Acceptance", "Tolerance" and "Diversity" of our larger tribe.
Master Malik is proud to serve as Southwest Master 2008. He was an associate member of T.U.L.S.A., founder of MaST-Tulsa. He is also an associate member of Chicago Hellfire Club.
He is founder of Oklahoma Leatherfest which is a great event under a new leadership.
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Spirituality in The Dungeon
Some of us, more than we realize, feel 'something' when doing a power exchange interaction, be it top or bottom, dominant or submissive, master or slave, or any other type of exchange. Many "feel" it during SM scenes and many in those moments, when one is kneeling at their master's feet or when, a top look at her/his bottom in a certain way.
Sometimes these moments are fleeting and sometimes they linger. Either way, to deny them is denial of a powerful phenomenon.
Let us get together in a quest to explore these moments, the moments which are difficult to measure with ordinary time clocks. Let us open our hearts and minds to the possibilities of existence of universal spirits which may bind us together. Let us seek pleasures of this spirituality, the definition of which is as elusive as any.
Please be prepared to be surprised or reaffirmed. Places of organized religions are not the only places of worship. We have heard "My God" more in dungeons than churches. 🙂 Let us find out what exactly does it mean.
Blood Rituals
Blood letting rituals have been a part of the human experience since the beginning.
The sacred and vital substance of blood has been used in purification rituals, to show a sign of obedience, offer the gift of surrender, empower sacred objects, and seal the precious bond between lovers, family and friends in various cultures. The focus of this class is on the powerful and sensual properties of blood and spiritual and ritual cutting. We will discuss its allure and magnetism as well as the emotional and spiritual impact it has in a S&M session. The eroticism of the act of cutting is a very potent aphrodisiac and has a powerful affect on the psyche of those involved in blood play. We will discuss necessary safety precautions and the appropriate equipment to use during blood rituals/play as well as offer suggestions on how to create an atmosphere conducive to such a session.
We shall also share our views and experiences about the power this kind of energy exchange which is at the apex of body, mind and soul. Please be advised that this is an advanced class recommended for people who understand the idea of safe, sane, and consensual or risk aware consensual kink; for those who desire and love playing on the edge.
Penelope Jones
Bio
Penelope’s a saucy little minx who will drive you insane with her naughtiness and cheek! A published author of erotic poetry and lover of all things mathematical and historical, she loves to share her life adventures to help others possibly navigate a sometimes overly political world, and find happiness in kink and leather! Penelope holds the title of Women’s International Leather Legacy 2015. Penelope’s had the honor of judging IML 38 (IML 2016), she judged International Mr. and Ms. Transgender Leather, as well as Oklahoma Mr. Leather, and much more. She has educated across the country and had back porch conversation with the coolest people. Penelope self identifies as...wait for it— herself. There really isn’t a label that describes her fully, so she’s known as the slave that wasn’t. For over 15 years, she has been blessed to be a part of a Leather-Family that spans across states and even countries. Penelope’s been spanking it since 1996, and has no plans of stopping any time soon!
Workshops
Do You Fit Inside This Box?
There're so many different titles or categories we can fall into in this lifestyle, but which one is right for you?
Once you've figured out who you are, how do you know which title or category works as your counterpart? Or can you have a relationship without titles and completely buck social normalcy?
Come hang out with me, and let's discuss the size, shape, and color of your box and how many titles and categories we can cram inside. Or, how many things I'll toss outside the box, because I'm the slave that wasn't, and breaking all the rules is my job!
Back-Porch Conversations can lead to hot sex and history in the making...
How do we build relationships in this lifestyle? By striking up conversations in the courtyard, the hallway outside a classroom, the smoking section outside, or even asking to sit with someone at breakfast. But, how do we maintain these relationships, and how do they lead to hot sex and history?
Well, bring your cute butt to this class and you will find out! And, make sure you bring your stories to share, because this class is what you make out of it, so it can be hot sex or a history lesson, you decide!
Persephone
Bio
Persephone (she/they/fae) has been driven by an unrelenting thirst for learning, since they found the community in 2005, they have never run out of knowledge worth finding, knowing, and sharing. Always eager to learn, she has brought her passion for education to her dynamic with Uncle Nasty (he/him), and found it shared and reciprocated. Teaching independently or together, this passionate and inviting duo is interactive, dynamic, and generous with their knowledge, believing that a vital part of community is the sharing of skilled information and points of view.
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When no means GO - building enjoyable and immersive Consensual-non consent scenarios
This class covers discussion of consensual non-consent in the form of scenes and play Please be aware that this discussion may be triggering to some individuals and that should be taken into account when deciding whether or not to come to this class.
Building enjoyable, believable, and immersive consensual non-consent scenes can be daunting. In this class, we will provide you with the tools to create powerful and unforgettable scenes while prioritizing the well-being and safety of everyone involved. We'll cover where to begin negotiating and building these scenes, and different options for exploration. We'll also discuss important risk mitigation strategies and considerations that ensure your scenes remain within the risk profiles of all involved. We will also explore the potential risks and considerations associated with CNC, such as emotional triggers, physical safety, and aftercare.
By the end of this class, you will have a deeper understanding of CNC, how to engage in it safely and consensually, and how to navigate the complex emotional and psychological aspects of this type of BDSM play.
Inner Boundaries: A Kink Exploration Meditation
Embark on a journey of self-discovery with 'Inner Boundaries: A Kink Exploration Meditation.' This immersive session invites you to delve into the depths of your own identity and internal boundaries within the realm of kink. Through guided meditation, explore the intricacies of your desires and unveil the layers of your authentic self. Discover the nuances of your boundaries and learn to honor them with mindfulness and self-compassion. In this safe and nurturing space, embrace the unique tapestry of your desires and cultivate a deeper understanding of your own identity. Join us as we navigate the terrain of self-discovery and empowerment, guided by curiosity and introspection.
Restorative and Processing Yin
This End of Event flow class utilizes the techniques of Yin Yoga and restorative processing to silence the noise and retreat inwards, as we have been running ourselves ragged this whole weekend, filling our brains and testing our bodies, this class is an invitation to slow down and allow our experiences to sink into us. This is a slow class, and poses are held longer. Wear comfortable clothes, and bring a mat if you have one (the instructor will have a few)
Scarlett Rose
Bio
Scarlett Rose (she/her) is the 2023 Ms SouthEast LeatherFest. Her journey in the kink community began over 20 years ago in New York City. She started out as a quiet, shy submissive who wanted to learn seemingly everything that she could get her hands on. As she grew with in the community, who she was evolved and changed as it often does. Within kink, Scarlett found her origins, but it always felt like something was missing.
Leather’s sense of service and community was what had been missing from the kink part of her life. She started to put one foot in front of the other and walk along her leather path right away. Through the years, she has enjoyed getting to serve her community by helping to organize SELF, teaching classes in her local community and serving her partners to the best of her ability.
Scarlett identifies as a bi-sexual, polyamorous, owned babygirl switch with a service-based heart and a sadistic streak. Also, she may not have a foot fetish herself, but she definitely is a shoe whore so will indulge yours. Look out for the Louboutin’s!
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Kinky & Charming: Learning The Etiquette Ropes
Dress codes and dungeon rules and dynamics, oh my!
Navigating kink spaces with grace definitely isn’t easy. Whether at your first event or your 500th, nuances exist for every situation. Come join me as I share my varied perspective from my experiences in the scene as an attendee, event staff, and titleholder.
We will cover dress code, dungeon & event etiquette basics, interacting with staff & volunteers and so much more.
Sir K- Wolf
Bio
K-Wolf (he/him) is a poly pansexual who has been involved in the BDSM community for 18 years and the Leather community for 17 years. He has been running a BDSM educational group called LOTUS with his partner, Trix for 9 years successfully in the Shreveport/Bossier area. He is a mentor in the community for newer members and has volunteered many hours for events locally and in Dallas. He, along with LOTUS group, have raised money for Point of Pride, the Trevor Project and GLAAD. He is a connoisseur of edgeplay, electrical play and temperature play but dabbles in many kink art forms. In his everyday life, he does woodworking, leatherwork and metal working (blade restoration and sharpening). When he's not doing all of those things, he enjoys a little down time with his partners, Trix and Sox. He is a fan of a good cigar, whiskey and good conversation. He is a firm believer in the P.R.I.C.K. (Personal Risk/ Informed Consensual Kink) acronym. Always feel free to say hello!
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Silver Children
A hands on on how to keep your blades of varying sizes and shapes sharp, maintained and happy in a spiritual and literal sense.
Sir Prussian Fyre and lucky
Bio
Sir Prussian Fyre (He/Him) and his collared Slave, lucky (They/she/it) live in Houston Texas. They founded and run a Leather club, called Lions Lair Leather in their area. He is a Leatherman, Hedonistic Sadist, and army veteran. She is a Leathergirl, devoted slave, hedonistic masochist, and degradation slut. They operate within a 24/7 Primal M/s dynamic, and have been in the BDSM community for nearly three decades between them. They have a passion for education and service to the community by their dedication to volunteerism, and teaching Fire, Blood, and the most taboo of play in all forms. They also have a passion for unconventional M/s and other dynamic styles and believe everyone’s journey is valid.
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Understanding CNC Dynamics: Navigating Negotiation for Choices and Consequences
Life is a series of CNC interactions: Choice and Consequences. In this class we will learn how to better prepare for the inevitably of CNC: Consensual Non Consent. We will discuss the importance of agency with yourself and within your dynamic, learn to negotiate for what we want and reconcile the gray area.
We will discuss the dark corners of the mind that desire the darkest side of the sand box, such as the fantasies of rape, abduction, interrogation, somnophilia, and the taboo nature of love by force
Humiliation, Degradation and Objectification: The Dark side of the Sandbox
We will discuss the psychology behind this type of play, why people enjoy it even when it seems counterintuitive, ways to intermingle this in to the other types of play your dynamic already uses, the various ways this play can happen, the negotiation techniques for this dark side of the sand box with trauma, and the before/aftercare for the Top, bottom, and the relationship.
It’s NOT Torture. According to the CIA : Waterboarding Level: 301
Waterboarding is a form of “torture” or as the CIA put its “inhanced interrogation technique” in which water is poured over a captives face, causing the person to experience the SENSATION of drowning.
In this Demo we will discuss its popularity in BDSM, the sensations to be expected, proper set up to avoid actual drowning and other safety concerns, the effects psychologically including landmines, the importance of aftercare and will demo a waterboarding scene.
Sir Tressa
Bio
Sir Tressa is a Queer, non-binary, homoflexible, genderfluid butch whose pronouns are whatever you want. Service is not only one of Sir Tressa's love languages, it is also part of their spiritual calling. For them, there is no greater honor than to serve their community, and in turn their Gods.
Sir Tressa began their BDSM/Leather journey in 2011 graduating from the Dallas Mentors Program and has developed a lasting connection to the Dallas/Ft. Worth kink community as both a leader and educator. Sir Tressa served as DM coordinator for DFW Diverse Interest Kinksters, was a founding member and leader of Plano Area Kinksters and Keepers of the Sacred Flame working to build the fire community in N. Dallas creating safety policies and practices for Sanctuary for the Lifestyle Arts. Sir Tressa has served NLA-Dallas as Secretary and currently serves as Co-Director for Beyond Vanilla.
It was in the DMP where Sir Tressa first fell in love with fire play, and over the course of the following years has honed their skills as a fire top. Sir Tressa teaches courses on fire play, energy work in BDSM, disability in Kink, the art of bastinado (foot torture) and paganism and kink.
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Kink & the Pagan Path
Paganism is a revival religion in many ways attempting to bring ancient polytheistic, pre-Christian religions and practices into the modern day. Many Pagans are drawn to kink with its energy, concepts of sacrifice, pain, animalism and other concepts. This class reviews several of the major tenants of Paganism and how kink can aid in providing Pagans a fulfilling religious experience.
Sparkles_Fox
Bio
Fox has been in the community for close to a decade. She has been active in the Leather community for most of that time and since 2022 has been a member of House Cyclone. In 2018, she became Member at Large for the National Leather Alliance in Dallas and most recently has held office as their Social Chair. Fox was the runner-up for Ms Leo in 2022 as well as runner-up for Ms. Hidden Door 2023.She has volunteered for Great Plains Olympus Leather, Beyond Vanilla and South Plains Leather Fest. Her current activities include assisting with the All Leather Social Outing and as Duchess Sparkles in the United Court of the Lonestar Empire.
She is passionate about Family, raising money for charity, education, and volunteering within the community. Fox is vibrant, tenacious and holds Leather ideals close to her heart.
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Being under the knife
Are you a bottom and want to try artistic cutting? Have no idea where to begin? This class is for you! We will discuss preparing before, negotiation, what to expect during the scene, and navigating aftercare. Unlike traditional classes geared towards sharps this is taught from the bottom’s perspective, and not a how-to for the cutting itself. Trigger warning: this class involves blood and the cutting of flesh.
Playing Beyond the Ash
Come join us as we journey through being deliciously wicked with cigars. It’s a familiar story. Your cigar is lit but the ash isn’t ready to drop just yet. If only there were other ways to play with that cigar… This class will go over some different ways to play with your cigar, including breath play, heat, and of course ash play. This class also covers ways to play even if the top doesn’t smoke but the bottom does. This is a hands on class and bringing a cigar is highly encouraged but not required. Accoutrements for cigar cutting and lighting will be on site for borrowing if needed.
SubversiveSwitch
Bio
SubversiveSwitch (they/them/theirs) discovered kink and non-monogamy earlier than anyone is comfortable admitting…except them. They spent years on the right side of the slash before uncovering a gleefully sadistic side in 2010. Deeply committed to educational enrichment in our community, SubversiveSwitch has facilitated in a variety of settings - formal classes, skill shares, unconference spaces, large discussion groups, rallies, panels, and mentorship. They serve the Utah community as President of PLAID, Personal Learning in Authority-Imbalanced Dynamics, HBIC of House Revolution, and Ms. Leather SLUT 2019.
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M/s 101
Are your dynamics rooted in power or authority...or both? Do you know the difference? Is there a difference? This class is an introduction to authority-transfer dynamics, also known as Master/slave dynamics. In this class, we will clarify the differences in power-exchange and authority-transfer dynamics, discuss introductory M/s theory, and explore why real world M/s looks different from what you watch on PornHub.
Avoiding the Crash and Burn: Partner Selection, Vetting, and Negotiation
Oftentimes new relationships feel like a brightly lit comet, fueled by infatuation and desire, followed by a devastating crash into earth. Other times, miscommunications result in conflict, mismatched expectations, and sometimes even harm. Can these “crash and burn” situations be avoided? Please join SubversiveSwitch for a discussion on practical tools to improve romantic, dynamic, and community based relationships.
Two Maybes = No: Consent 201
In this class, we shatter the illusion that consent is a mere checkbox on a kinky to-do list. Oh no, my dear, it's an ongoing dialogue, a delicious negotiation of desires and boundaries. Consent isn't just about what happens in the dungeon (though that's where the fun begins). It permeates every aspect of life in BDSM and leather communities and execution of consent practices outside the dungeon is most commonly where we fail. You think you know, but darling, you don't know half of it.
Join SubversiveSwitch for the consent class you don't think you need and practical tools for elevating your consent practices.
SweetSalt
Bio
SweetSalt is a polyamorous switch who has a deep love and passion for connection, spirituality, and intimacy. She has been practicing kink for 17 years and has developed a particular devotion for the practice of more taboo fetishes and interests, especially as a spiritual practice.
Although she shares her heart with others, she is honored to present as slave to Master Malik and is walking the path of Mastery.
SweetSalt is active in the DFW community and has been sharing her knowledge for many years. She firmly believes in the power of self-expression, acceptance, and liberation in kink and encourages everyone to be true to themselves both in and out of the dungeon. She feels that when we explore the deepest chasms of our hearts and minds we can achieve a greater connection to ourselves and those around us.
As a kinky person SweetSalt practices SM under the PRICK risk profile. She believes in accountability and continued growth by learning from our flaws. As a Leatherwoman she walks to the beat of her own drum and strives to live as authentically as possible.
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Face Torture
The face is probably one of the most neglected parts of the body in regards to pain and S&M, but it is one of the most delicious areas to torture as many of us do everything we can to protect our faces.
Face torture goes far beyond face slapping. Ever try your hand at amateur dentistry? See what you can do with a bundle of twine? Make someone drool enough you could bottle it up for later?
This class will cover skills for beginners as well more advanced players. We will discuss how to play safely without injury to this fragile part of the body.
Tomo
Bio
Tomo (He/They) is a gender queer butch leatherdyke who found the leather community during a sunset motorcycle ride with his wife Mel three decades ago. He has presented classes, produced events, served as a judge, keynote speaker, auctioneer and emcee at leather events since. Tomo has been served by his Majordomo Levi for over 17 years.
Tomo is Owner and Producer of South Plains Leatherfest, the International Master slave Contest and the International Person of Leather Contest. He served as Northwest slave 2015 and International slave 2016/2021. He was a Producer of Northwest Leather Celebration, the Northwest Master slave, Northwest Bootblack, and Northwest Person of Leather Contests. He was also a Producer of International Ms Leather and International Ms Bootblack for seven years. He co-produces the Ms Sacramento Leather Contest and is a founding member of the D.U.C.
Tomo is a member and serves as Webmaster for Queer Leather Association Sacramento, has served as the West Coast Curator for the Leather Quilt Project, is a former Director of MAsT: Sacramento , and is a member of MAsT: San Francisco and The Exiles. He was awarded the 2013 Pantheon of Leather President's Award, the 2018 Master slave Conference slave Heart Award, the 2020 Vice President’s Award from the National Leather Association, and the 2023 Master slave Conference Guy Baldwin Master/slave Heritage Award.
Workshops
The Joy of Punching
Hitting your bottom can be a hot fun way to cause pain. The intimacy of hands-on sadism can be intense and connected. What is not hot is injury in the middle of a scene! We’ll begin this class by learning proper punching technique so it isn’t the top that hurts. Small Top, large bottom - it doesn’t matter. Striking techniques work on all body types if done properly and placed specifically. We’ll explore and practice methods of striking and areas of the body to create a range of pain from pleasant to unbearable.
Don't Move - Binding with Rope 101
Ever thought rope was sexy but too complicated? Want to remove your bottom's ability to move by your control, but intimidated by fancy rope that seems too difficult? Tomo will help! This class will present clear, simple, and easy to learn yet very effective rope techniques. We will talk about rope safety and practice ties. By the end of the class, you'll be ready to bind your partner with rope and well – what you do after that is up to you! Tomo promises to remove the mystery and complication of tying. If you can tie your shoes, you can do this! Come alone or with a partner and with any type of rope for practice. Tomo will have practice rope to lend.
Takin' It
Whether you take pain for yourself or for your Top, pain can be erotic and ecstatic. At times, it can also be miserable! If you are a masochist, this class will help you take care of your body and increase what you can endure over the long haul. For submissive masochists who don't necessarily take pain just for pain's sake, we will discuss ways to prepare and increase your endurance level. We will also address ways in which the Top can inspire more pain than the bottom thinks s/he can take. This class will include discussion on preparation before a scene, techniques to increase your endurance during the scene, getting through that point of struggle we all know about, and after care that you as the bottom can do for yourself to prepare your body for the next scene and long term. These steps can lead to an increase in the amount of pain you take and the pleasure you experience in doing so.
Trix
Bio
TrixWolf (they/them) is a Gender Queer, omnisexual, french creole that has been involved in the BDSM lifestyle for 17 years and in Leather for 14 years. They lead and teach locally in their kink group, LOTUS and Producer of the annual BDSM/Leather conference called Vision, which is the first of its kind in the area. Trix has taught at events such as Beyond Vanilla, Leather Bar Night, and SELF. They are a volunteer at PACE (pride event), Trans Advocates in Louisiana, and various other pride groups. There is a special place in their heart for educating the vanillas, LGBTQ advocacy, BIPOC inclusivity, and they are especially passionate about kink centric education. Trix is a cancer survivor and lives with a rare lung disease, giving them the ability to express that dynamics can be and are for anyone. Trix is Head of House for LotusWolf Clan and proud to be nurturing a handler/beast relationship with Sir_K-Wolf, a M/s dynamic with Parasocks, is considering a DD/lg relationship with their Bunny and Handler/pet dynamic with a Wossum They are honored to have built a family space and proudly proclaim that the LotusWolf House is a "Shelter for the Strays and Home for the Heart”.Don't let being a Daddy fool you though, Trix has a deep love for the macabre side of kink and have a desire to play with anything sharp. They identify most as a Trigger Warning and like to play with the risk profile FAFO and are always uo to some sort of shenanigans.
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Speaking in Tongues
Unleash your inner seductress or seducer in "Speaking in Tongues," a provocative class designed to explore the art of dirty talk. Delve into the intricacies of sensual communication, learning how to articulate desires, fantasies, and passions with confidence and flair. You'll discover the power of words to heighten intimacy and ignite desire. Whether you're a novice or seasoned pro, this class offers a safe and supportive environment to enhance your verbal prowess in the bedroom. From playful banter to steamy declarations, "Speaking in Tongues" will empower you to tantalize and titillate with your words like never before. Unlock the secrets of erotic communication and elevate your sensual experiences to new heights.
Uncle Nasty
Bio
Uncle Nasty is a poly queer leather daddy master with 10 years experience in the lifestyle. He has helped many different organizations with graphic arts and marketing for numerous events and provides services for social media posts and designs with individual marketing projects. He is proud to be helpful and supportive with the best hugs one can give. Uncle Nasty likes to live comfortably outside the box, presenting a unique presence one is sure not to forget.
Workshop
Beyond Needle Anxiety
Ever wanted to experience needle play but nervous about the experience due to anxiety or fear? Come to this class and let’s discuss how to conquer those emotions using breathing techniques, procrastination through energetic meditation and empowerment, and alternative methods to overcome the anxiety of needle play.
Wonder Woman
Bio
Wonder Woman is a Leather and Lego loving Little stuck inside a switch that identifies as a Femme Domme. Entering the Kink Community in 2018, Oklahoma resident, Wonder found and embraced her leather heart and ran for the title of Ms Route 66 Leather 2023 and won! Wonder's desire is to break negative stigmas of Age Play in the kink community, show people that you don’t have to own or wear leather to be leather and encourage others to embrace their own leather hearts.
Workshop
Consensual Acts of Age Play
As Age Players, often times when we get into a younger headspace, common sense seems to fly right out the window. And just because we’re in the kink community and we’ve consented to this lifestyle, that doesn’t mean everyone has consented to take part in our Age Play! Join the current Ms Route 66 Leather 2023, Wonder Woman, on an interactive journey exploring common mistakes made by Age Players and kinksters alike. Discuss tips and tricks on how to come back to your adult self and how to help prepare and present yourself for any kind of kink event.