Psyche of the bio horse

In this workshop you will learn how to make pony play feel more authentic to the biological horse. Ideal for ponies and handlers with no prior equestrian experience, the class explains why horses move and react the way they do and how to translate those mannerisms into your pony persona or handling style. Topics include horse body language (ears, head, tail, posture), natural gaits and transitions, herd and flight/avoidance instincts, and common startle and calming behaviors. You will practice movement, cues, and timing to create believable, safe interactions and learn how to blend authenticity with participant comfort. No previous horse experience required.

Dressage

This hands-on class translates classical dressage basics into practical, safe techniques for pony play. Through demonstration and progressive practice, participants will learn the distinct gaits and movements seen in dressage, how a handler can cue those movements clearly and respectfully, and how a pony can perform them confidently — regardless of prior experience. By the end of the session you’ll be prancing, dancing, and executing simple dressage patterns with poise.

Red Flags 101: BDSM edition

How do you indulge your desires for playing on the wild side and still stay safe?  How can you tell the fakes from the real thing?  And what are some key ways to find all this out ahead of time instead of after things go wrong?  Just like learning to read between the lines and spotting the fine print in online ads, there are ways to tell when the profile won’t hold up well to reality.

Negotiation, Consent, Fetish and Flirting: How to get from flirting to consent

So you see someone hot across the room.  How do you safely and gracefully move your fantasies into reality?  We’ll talk about flirting, negotiation (why you need it and why it makes your sex and scenes hotter), and how to move negotiation into consent (and keep it in consent).

Edging 101

This is a class that provides an introduction about edging, what is it? Why do people edge? For the curious, what is it about edging that people enjoy so much? It also surrounds some of the things that you might encounter during your journey, providing some safety guidance and resources for your individual journeys. The class will be presented as a class format as well as discussions to further enhance the experience. The class is open to all genders because this is a learning experience, with learning, there should not be restrictions about who can learn what, it’s open to all who are interested.

Boundaries and Kink

Boundaries and Kink is a class for all sides of the slash. This class covers what boundaries actually are, what boundaries look like in all areas of your life, and how boundaries fit into kink. This is a life skills class designed to empower individuals to make the most out of their vanilla and kink lives.

Self care for Bootblacks

With Bootblacking being strenuous, its important for Bootblacks to practice self care before, during and after a shift. Self care will enable us to shine more effectively

Survival in the Scene (How to Not Fuck Yourself in the Pursuit of Fun) 

BIPOC Panel: Navigating Challenges, Building Legacy

This open community discussion brings together BIPOC voices from across the leather, kink, and BDSM communities for an honest conversation about the realities, challenges, and successes we experience within our spaces.

Through shared experiences and open dialogue, panelists will explore topics including visibility, representation, community building, leadership, mentorship, inclusion, and navigating identity within leather and kink environments. The discussion will also highlight the achievements, resilience, and cultural contributions that continue to shape and strengthen our community.

This panel is open to all attendees and is designed to encourage meaningful conversation, deeper understanding, and stronger connections across our diverse communities.

Whether you are looking to learn, share perspectives, or engage in thoughtful dialogue, this space invites respectful participation and community-centered conversation.

Together, we honor the experiences that shape us while building a more inclusive future for everyone.”

Blood Chokes: Myths and Methodology

We have all seen it. The cinematic hand at the throat. The dramatic collapse. The dominant figure throttling consciousness out of someone with all the realism of a network crime drama and roughly the same understanding of anatomy. Meanwhile, martial arts showcases people repeatedly taking naps on gym mats. This class seeks to demystify and deconstruct how people touch necks in a way that renders you unconscious.

Chokes occupy a strange place in kink. Simultaneously over-romanticized, under-explained, and frequently taught with the confidence of someone who has absolutely never looked at a vascular diagram. We will drag the topic out of rumor, fantasy, and recycled misinformation and into the light of modern medical understanding.We will examine what actually happens as consciousness is interrupted, why it works, what variables make it more or less effective, and why “cutting off oxygen” is usually the wrong explanation entirely.

Explore the anatomy involved in vascular compression, including the carotid arteries and baroreceptors, and learn why the body responds the way it does. We will discuss common misconceptions surrounding unconsciousness in play, the physiological differences between blood and air restriction, and the ways individual variability can radically alter outcomes.

We will also cover complications to consider, risk mitigation practices, communication frameworks, and the uncomfortable reality that confidence is not competence.

Stun Guns, Cattle prods, and Shock Collars, oh my!

Let’s get beyond the basics of electrical play and expand our kit. In this class, we will explore more shockingly fun devices, including stun guns, cattle prods, shock collars, and a surprise device. We will learn how to procure each device, what to look for and what to avoid, as well as some of the legalities of owning them and their use. We’ll discuss the special considerations of each device and the people it might be used on.  As well as delve into the fun and sadistic ways to employ each.

Wax, Wick, and Fire: The Art and Science of Wax Play

Explore the heat, the science, and the sensuality behind wax play. Learn how wax type, wick construction, additives, and technique influence sensation, safety, and the scene.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

UNDERSTAND WAX TYPES & THEIR TEMPERATURE RANGES

• Learn the differences between common waxes

• Understand general melting point ranges

• Discover how melting points impact heat, sensation, and safety

HOW WICKS INFLUENCE FLAME, HEAT & MELT POOL

• Explore wick materials, sizes, and construction

• Learn how wicks affect flame behavior and heat output

• Understand melt pool size, depth, and wax temperature

HOW ADDITIVES ALTER WAX BEHAVIOR & SENSATION

• Discover how dyes, fragrances, oils, pigments, and UV powders impact consistency, performance, and the sensory experience

• Understand how additives can enhance or intensify sensation

SAFER TECHNIQUES, BODY AWARENESS & RISK REDUCTION

• Identify safer body areas and key considerations

• Learn different techniques: dripping, trails, distance, layering & more

• Understand risk factors and how to minimize them

THE IMPORTANCE OF CONSENT, COMMUNICATION & AFTERCARE

Strengthen negotiation skills and clear communication

• Learn how to read, respond, and respect boundaries

• Explore wax removal, aftercare, and basic burn response

• Build trust and create empowering, informed experiences

Know your wax. Know your heat. Know your person.

Inferno: Intermediate Fire Play Technigues & Scene Craft

This intermediate workshop explores the artistry, precision, and intentionality required for advancing your fire play practices. We’ll dive deep into safety, scene design, fuels, tools, and refined techniques to elevate your skill while honoring risk awareness, communication, and aftercare.

For practitioners ready to expand their confidence and deepen their responsibility.

IN THIS INTERMEDIATE WORKSHOP YOU WILL EXPLORE:

1. INTERMEDIATE SAFETY & SCENE SETUP: Environmental assessment, risk management, emergency planning, and intermediate safety protocols.

2. FUELS & THEIR EFFECTS: Understanding fuel characteristics, storage, handling, and how to match fuels to sensation and technique.

3. TOOLS & EQUIPMENT: Specialized tools, equipment care, safety gear, and creating an efficient fire play setup.

4. INTERMEDIATE TECHNIQUES: Cell popping and two-wand technique, and integrating multiple modalities.

5. READING THE BODY: Recognizing physical and emotional responses, managing intensity, and maintaining safety.

6. COMMUNICATION & NEGOTIATION: Advanced negotiation, dynamic consent, and in-scene communication strategies.

7. INTERMEDIATE AFTERCARE: Physical recovery, emotional processing, debriefing, and long-term care

WHO SHOULD ATTEND? 

Practitioners with foundational fire play experience looking to build confidence, refine, thier skills, and advance thier practice responsibly. “

Beyond the Binary Bag of Tricks: The Language of Intensity

Throw out the heteronormative manual. Eroticizing anatomy without triggering dysphoria requires creativity, intentionality, and a bit of “queer magic.” @GoddexKhaleesi shares their “Bag of Tricks” for giving and receiving pleasure across the gender spectrum, while their partner, Madame Madison shares her experience with learning to relax into her sexual expression as a trans women. While we will cover the technical nuances of strap-on play, the core of this class is the Language of Intensity: how to build the psychological and energetic container for extreme acts like fisting and sounding. The class will be hands-on and involve demonstration of technique as well as erotic energy exchange, up to and potentially including sexual intercourse. This is for anyone looking to expand their repertoire while centering gender-affirming intimacy and intense, primal connection.

Learning Objectives:

• Master the physics of queer strap-on play (harness fit, angles, and energy transfer).

• Learn communication techniques to affirm gender identity during high-intensity scenes.

• Analyze the psychological preparation and “headspace” required for both giver and receiver in extreme penetration.

Cumming into Your Power: Intro to Sex Magic

I heard you like magic… I’ve got a wand and a rabbit! Beyond the physical release, sex is a potent conduit for manifestation and personal evolution. Drawing from the Western Mystery Tradition, Existential Kink, and years of eclectic practice, @GoddexKhaleesi invites you to move beyond the “edge” and into your power. This session covers the history of sex magic, the “Existential Kink” framework of radical acceptance, and practical techniques for using erotic energy in your craft.

The Ritual:

The class culminates in a live, intentional Sex Magic ritual. Participants will be invited to hold space and witness as @GoddexKhaleesi and Madame Madison utilize breath, energy work, and orgasmic release to charge a specific intention for the community. Observe the practical application of theurgy in real-time and witness how erotic energy can be directed toward a magical goal.

Learning Objectives:

• Understand the fundamental mechanics of Sex Magic and “Shadow Work.”

• Learn how to draft and charge a personal spell using erotic focus.

• Observe the transmutation of sexual energy into a focused magical intent through a live demonstration.

Service 101: Self Empowerment through Humility

What does it mean to truly serve? This class looks beyond household tasks to explore service as a way of showing up—for yourself, for others, and for your community. Rooted in kink and leather culture, we’ll talk about how service can be an act of care, accountability, and connection, and how it plays a vital role in building healthier, more supportive communities.

Don’t Kiss Me, HIT ME!

Love may fill the air for some but in kink some of us are aromantic or have non-romantic dynamics. How does one navigate a non-romance dynamic? Glad you asked! In this class we are going to come up with examples from mentorship all the way to full blown sexual deviancy-filled dynamics where you don’t have to be “in love” with eachother to play. You are just what eachother need, well, at least their fists are what you need.

Up Yours! Intro to Anal Training

Humans have been putting things up their butts for years but rarely does anyone fully explain how to do it in a way that’s safe, clean and pleasurable. In this discussion we’ll talk about diet, cleaning out, the myths of anal not being pleasurable for AFAB individuals and how to go from a finger to that nice open gape.

Decolonizing Power: Navigating M/s Dynamics Through Culture, Identity, and Ancestral Healing

This class explores what it means to engage in M/s dynamics while actively unpacking the impacts of colonization, generational trauma, and cultural identity. Centered in the lived experience of a BIPOC woman, we will examine how internalized beliefs, survival patterns, and inherited histories shape our understanding of authority, devotion, and consent. Special attention is given to navigating dynamics where the “Master” exists within dominant Western frameworks, and how cultural dissonance can surface in power exchange. This space invites participants to reflect, unlearn, and rebuild dynamics rooted in intention, autonomy, and cultural reclamation.

BPD, PTSD & M/s

There’s still a significant stigma surrounding mental health, particularly when it comes to diagnoses like Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). Joy will share her experiences, highlighting the impact of her challenges with BPD and PTSD on her relationships. This discussion emphasizes that dealing with mental health issues can be tough, but it doesn’t have to be a relationship deal-breaker.

Giddy Up: Practical Guide to Pony Play

Pony Play can be an incredibly rewarding activity for both Handlers, and Ponies. While Mara and Charlie can (and frequently do) spend hours passionately discussing this topic, this will be a demonstration led class giving participants hands-on experience with pony play. With accessibility to all in mind, this class features financially friendly ways to indulge in this type of play. We will touch on a number of different types of Pony Play, pony grooming, tack, training, and groundwork. Come prepared to neigh and play!

I Don’t Bite, but my Handler Might: Developing Service Animal Dynamic

Developing a service animal dynamic is hard work. Take it from us, in the first two months of our dynamic we both suffered monumental health issues. The functions of a human service animal are endless. Our exploration of a dynamic as Handler and Service pet has led to us discovering new ways to elevate service in our day to day life, as well as at events. Our class discusses how to incorporate your service dynamic into your living spaces be they together or separate.  Being in a long distance relationship while also traveling together to Leather spaces has given us a unique perspective on how to nurture the dynamic while juggling life’s many challenges. We believe every service critter has unique skills that are important to highlight. Sometimes even the goodest of boys have to go to the vet, we dive into our struggles with our own limitations, and how to work through these days as a team.

Open Secrets of Long Term M/s and other Relationships

There are a great numbers of master/slave relationships which are less than a year old. Then the numbers starts declining with the passage of time….5 years? 10 years? 15 years? and beyond? 

We have been in our Master/slave dynamics from 10 to 24 years now. Was it easy? HAHA! 

Did I catch her before she tried to run off the door….naked? YES!

Did she bodily stopped me before I even got dressed? Hell YES!

Through heated discussions, even arguments (we are human first…. and yes…master and slaves do argue…just in a different tone), cries, anger and so many emotional roller coasters….we thrive and stay vibrant. 

Have you ever stretched the rubber band to its limit before just breaking? Try that in real life dynamics and see what happens. 

We have done it. 

HOW? 

That is what we would like to share. 

And it is so simple. (and yet so complicated!!)

And it is so simple. (and yet so complicated!!)

Songs of Long Bullwhips

Whips have been around for centuries in many different parts of the world. We, as SM practitioners have adopted this wonderful tool of pain and pleasure for our purpose for quite sometimes now. Whips are tricky tools but they are not that difficult to learn.

The erotic use of any toy in our play is something we all desire because of the very nature of who we are. This class will explore from light to heavy sensation, eroticism, and emotions of this SM play.

Songs of long bull whips are addictive and lyrics of pain, sufferings, scream, laughter, tears and sobs complete the magic.

The Kink Lab: Rubber Chicken Flogger

Ready to ruffle some feathers? Swing by Beyond Vanilla 2026 and get your hands on the quirkiest Kink Lab yet! We’re talking about making your very own Rubber Chicken Flogger—yes, you heard that right. With a paracord handle and a flock of screaming rubber chickens, this toy is sure to add a whole new level of squawk to your play. Come for the laughs, stay for the creativity, and leave with a flogger that’s as unique as you are!

Never made a flogger before? No worries! Whether you’re brand new or a seasoned pro, everyone’s welcome to join the flock. We’ll walk (or waddle) you through every step, and Wandering Skuggi and the House of Ravens have all the goodies you’ll need. No experience? No problem—just bring your curiosity and get ready to quack up!

Bring your sass, your creativity, and maybe a few extra rubber chickens you have lying around! We’ll have material packs ready to go, but if you want to put your own spin on things, feel free to bring your favorite paracord and mini chickens. Keep an eye on Discord and Fetlife for the full shopping list—coming soon!

By the end of the night, you’ll have a Rubber Chicken Flogger that’s ready to squawk its way into your next scene! And if you can’t make it this time, don’t worry—we flock together on the first Friday of every month at DFW Dungeon. There’s always another chance to join the fun and get crafty with us!

Come for the crafting, stay for the laughs, and leave with a toy that’s sure to spice up your adventures. Meet new friends, learn some new tricks, and let your creativity run wild. Don’t miss out on this quacktastic, cheeky, and totally welcoming night of fun at The Kink Lab!

Fire Blood Cupping

What is fire blood cupping?

COME FIND OUT!

Fire cupping uses suction to lift skin and muscle tissue, increasing local blood flow and easing short-term muscle pain add to it by cutting the skin and pulling blood into the cup it helps remove toxins.

Now for the fun stuff by combining both fire and cutting human fear hormone kick in primarily adrenaline, noradrenaline, and cortisol causing an instant high making the bottom want to run or hide but they can’t move adding to the hormones inducing SUB HIGH OR SUB SPACE.

Exploring Headspace

Headspace plays a critical role before, during, and after play, as well as in understanding what occurs when a drop happens. In this discussion-based class, we will explore what headspace is, how to navigate it effectively, and how to tune into your own needs, particularly when engaging in aftercare. We will also address challenging headspace and the experience commonly referred to as “drop.” When adrop occurs, it can feel sudden and overwhelming, often leaving individuals confused, especially in their early experiences. Participants will have the opportunity to share insights, coping strategies, and approaches that have been helpful during these moments, fostering greater awareness, support, and resilience.

Pegging and Strap-on Play

Pegging/Strap-on play is my passion and I am a strong advocate for the practice. We will talk about how to get started, how to get comfortable with your body, what this kind of play can do to your body and how you may feel from both top and bottom perspectives. We will talk about how we can make both participants comfortable in the practice of pegging/strap-on play. We will talk about different harnesses, dildos, and lubes that work best for you and your play style.

Consent is Sexy: Ethical slutting is worth the effort

Consent is sexy but can often be difficult to navigate thoroughly. Words can have different meanings to different people, and harm or regret can occur even with the best of intentions. While being an ethical slut is absolutely worth the effort, sometimes getting everyone’s full understanding and consent can feel like a Sisyphean task. In this class, we will strive to cover the basics of consent, common issues that arise within consent discussions, and how to navigate the complicated feelings around encounters that did not go as desired.

Knife play with a sensational twist; Basics:  Blades and pointy things 101

With extra mischief and lots of fun.

Cold steel against the skin, 

For Tops and bottoms it’s a win!

Big or little, tall or small, 

We’ve got something fit for all.

Exciting giggles, moans, and squeals,

All building up to sensational thrills!

For lots less rhyming and a little more sass,

Make sure to show up for Missa’s knife class!

Corsetry 101

Corsets have been around a long time, but good information about them can be difficult to find or evaluate. A charged subject with many feelings and opinions, as well as a global market making exciting pieces accessible, in this class we can let our understanding of anatomy and biology guide our choices. In this class, we will go over how to fit and find a corset that suits your needs. This class goes over how to measure oneself, the different kinds of corsets and materials used, and what to look for in a piece, as well as how to lace, care for, and wear.

Morning Mindfulness Flow

A kink-friendly morning flow class, oriented towards opening our minds for learning and the day. This flow is aimed towards all levels, and is a vinyasa styled flow. Wear comfortable clothing, the instructor will have a few mats but if you have your own please bring it.

New Paths to the Stable: Practical Accessibility and Adaptation for Pony Play

Pony play has a reputation for being a high-strength, high-precision, often extremely physical practice.  

So what happens if you simply can’t approach it that way?

Whether age or injury, a sudden shift or a lifelong disability, not having the ability to perform as a pony in the way it’s most often taught doesn’t mean you can’t find your inner pony and enable them! Pony play is for everyone of all levels of physical and sensory ability.  

When we build new paths to the stable, we all benefit.

In this workshop discussion, we will be highlighting some of the more common disabilities seen in the space and ways to adapt around them.  With any remaining time at the end, we will open this up to a discussion for those who might want help finding ways to adapt to their own situations.  This discussion will be focused towards pony play, but many of the adaptations could just as easily work for other pet players as well.”

The Art of the Aftercare: Decompression, Connection, and Recovery

The final strike is never the end of the story—it’s the beginning of the most critical chapter. Aftercare is the essential bridge that brings partners back from the heightened intensity of impact play into a space of safety, warmth, and grounded connection.

The Art of the Slap

Learn the art of the slap in this, a workshop focusing on safe, consensual, and impactful hand-to-skin contact. We will explore techniques for varied intensity, identify safe strike zones, and discuss communication to turn a simple gesture into a powerful connection, emphasizing safety and pleasure.

The Politics of Presence: Leather Leadership and Community Organizing

During the AIDS crisis of the 1980s, leather communities and their allies became critical networks of care, fundraising, protection, and political advocacy. Leather bars, clubs, titleholders, guards, lesbians, and organizations such as Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and ACT UP helped build systems of mutual aid and public action at a time when institutions failed queer communities.

This workshop explores how leather culture transformed visibility into leverage through organized action, coalition-building, and disciplined leadership—and why those lessons remain deeply relevant today.

As leather communities increasingly face marginalization, shrinking queer spaces, and growing political pressure, this session asks what it means to reclaim leather leadership beyond aesthetics and spectacle. Participants will examine how titleholders, clubs, and community leaders can serve as civic organizers, advocates, and visible stakeholders within broader LGBTQ+ and political movements.

Topics include: – Leather organizing and activism during the AIDS crisis

• Mutual aid, protection, and collaboration across queer communities

• The role of titleholders as leaders and civic ambassadors

• Visibility as influence rather than performance

• Building coalitions and reclaiming leather presence in public life

• Practical tools for political advocacy, community organizing, and engaging legislators

Blending historical context with practical strategy, this workshop challenges participants to rethink leather leadership not only as cultural representation, but as a form of organized civic power rooted in service, accountability, and community presence.”

Curative Kink: Rewriting Trauma Through Power, Trust, and Consent

This workshop explores the intersection of kink and trauma through a trauma-informed lens. We will examine how elements of kink—such as consent, structure, communication, and power exchange—can create opportunities for emotional healing, self-understanding, and empowerment. The discussion will incorporate relevant research on trauma, attachment, and consensual kink dynamics to better understand potential psychological benefits and limitations.

Longing & Logistics:  Lessons & Strategies for Long Distance Relationships

Not every M/s relationship gets to live together, and even when they do, sometimes things can keep them apart.  Please join me as I share life experiences in long distance relationships.  This class will cover keeping protocols from a distance and tools for communication and managing the emotional roller coaster. So, whether your partner lives in a different location, works on the road or offshore, or goes on deployment, join me for this important discussion.

Beyond Force: How Coercion, Grooming, and Early Sexualization Shape Desire

Trigger Warning: This class discusses childhood SA trauma, grooming, coercion, consent violations, and survivorship.

This trauma-informed class explores how early experiences with sexuality, power, consent, and boundary-crossing can shape desire, intimacy, kink, and Leather identity later in life. Centering the often-overlooked experiences of men and masculine people, especially Black men, we will examine the myths that can make certain forms of harm harder to recognize or name.

Participants will not be asked to disclose personal experiences. This class is designed as a reflective educational space focused on language, context, consent, and reclaiming erotic agency with care.

Negotiations from the Bottom: Bottoms have a voice too!

Are you on the bottom/sub side of the slash and find it hard to negotiate? This class is designed to help you self-evaluate your needs and desires and hard limits when it comes to public and private play.

Rough Body Play: When the Claws Come Out

So everyone has heard of rough body play, but what about the play where no one knows who will win? Have you ever played with a cat? They bite, the scratch, they play dirty, and they play to win. Take a step into the private world of Sir Bradford and Pixie Cat. Daddy and Kitten, are willing to give you a peek into a dynamic they do not share with everyone to help shed light on another form of rough body play. They draw blood intentionally, they don’t pull punches, they take things a little further than simple slapping and choking. Come play in our dark, primal world and see who will come out the winner.

Boots and Pants and Boots and… Cigars

Two of my favorite things, join us as we enjoy boots, and cigars while learning the basics of boot care and enjoying a cigar, on top and bottom of the ash. 

Cigars have to be one of the most passive sexually charged play tools one can enjoy. With a little practice you can enjoy service, friends, temperature play, and a good stick, all while relaxing on the back porch.

Independent; Owned & Operated

Owner/property. Some have heard of the dynamic before but others have not. What exactly does it mean? How does it work when the “property” is not submissive, can do bad all by themselves, and knows it? Let’s discuss what it means to be independent, property, and Daddy’s Kitten. Hear from the Bougie Mac Computer/Girl with a capital “G” and her Owner/Daddy (who’s also the middle that rides the Cat bareback) on how this absolute powerhouse of an independent woman became the tool masterfully harnessed by her Sir to run their world.

Respectfully, Not Your Doormat: Praise, Protection, and the End of Passive Submission

“This class is a call-out and a call-in for s-types who’ve been shamed for having boundaries and D-types who know that real authority demands care. We’ll unpack how passive submission erodes connection, why praise is more than a pat on the head, and how protection forms the backbone of healthy authority exchange.

This class will challenge the idea that obedience is synonymous with silence and offer tools for s-types to stay rooted in their worth while kneeling with intention. If you’ve ever been called a brat for saying “no,” or called someone disobedient for the same, this class is for you.”

Beneath the Surface: Pain, Permanence, and Power through Scarification

“Step into the intense world of scarification, where pain becomes a language and permanence shapes connection. This class is about more than just techniques; it’s about trust, vulnerability, and the deep bond formed through shared experience. We’ll explore the history of scarification, the meaning behind each mark, and how to approach the practice with mindfulness and precision. You’ll learn how to prepare both your body and mind, and how to navigate the psychological intensity that comes with cutting. Aftercare, the quiet yet essential part of the process, will also be covered to ensure healing, not just physically, but emotionally.

For those who wish to witness the act firsthand, there will be a live demonstration. This is a chance to feel the raw energy of this practice in action. Join us for a powerful and immersive experience, where every cut leaves a lasting imprint, both on the skin and in the soul.”

Let Us in the Dungeon Damn it!

Bootblacking is so much more than technical skills and a good shine.  All too often these days I see bootblacks in the room outside the dungeon or the end of a hallway or a hidden alcove, kept far away from the hot kinky dungeon.  

In this class we will explore the ways leather care can be a scene from leather worship to full polish, how can this be incorporated into kinky fun? 

We will also touch upon some basics for bootblack negotiations. What you need at a minimum and why. How to maintain your scene while blacking and what flavor do you want it to have?

This class is a combination of lecture, facilitated discussion and demonstrations. Please join me as we explore how to keep bootblacking hot, hot, HOT!!!

Caning: From Rattan to Barbed Wire

Canes can be sensual, gentle, and almost like a massage. Canes can also be brutal and bloody. In this class we explore the different possibilities and opportunities that canes can deliver.

As you might expect, canes can vary greatly. Caning enthusiasts might have a myriad of different materials, widths, lengths, and variations of flexibilities. Each cane can deliver a sensation much different than the next. The style of caning can elicit different responses as well. A judicial caning can bring about a much different scene than a rhythmic caning.

Barbed wire canes can be a brutal toy in one’s toy bag. They bring fear. They bring pain. They bring blood. They can bring forth a powerful scene that you may never forget.

Dominance from the female Perspective

This class explores the experience of stepping into Dominance as a woman within traditionally male-dominated spaces. Participants will examine confidence, authority, and authenticity.

Key Takeaways:

• Owning your Dominance unapologetically

• Breaking internal and external limitations

• Navigating male-dominated spaces

• Building authentic authority

Mummification: Control, Sensation, and Full-Body Restraint

Explore mummification as an immersive restraint and sensory experience. This class covers materials, safety, and intentional scene design.

Key Takeaways:

• Material selection and use

• Safety: breathing, circulation, temperature

• Sensory vs control-focused scenes

• Safe removal and aftercare

Creating Intensity Safely: How the Nervous System Shapes Kink Play

“Intensity in kink is not just about technique. It is shaped by how the nervous system responds to stimulation, risk, and connection. When the nervous system is supported, play can feel immersive, exciting, and deeply satisfying. When it is overwhelmed or dysregulated, the same activities can feel flat, confusing, or distressing.

This session introduces a practical framework for understanding how different nervous system states influence kink experiences. Participants will learn how to recognize shifts in arousal, safety, and regulation, and how these shifts affect perception, sensation, and emotional response.

We will explore how pacing, rhythm, tone, and physical contact can be used to build trust, increase intensity, and support deeper experiences without destabilizing the dynamic. Rather than focusing on specific techniques, this class provides tools to improve the quality and consistency of play.

Participants will leave with a clearer understanding of how to create intensity that feels both powerful and safe.

Takeaways

• Understand how nervous system states shape kink experiences

• Recognize signs of regulation and dysregulation during play

• Learn how to build intensity more intentionally and safely

Best Suited To

• Beginner to intermediate kink practitioners

• Those looking to improve quality of play

• Dominants, submissives, and switches

Massage & Intimacy

Massage and Intimacy, is a lecture/live demo in which you can learn the quick basics of massage and how to apply those basics during a one on one intimate session with a partner.

Kinky Crafting

We’ve all heard the term ‘pervertables’, which basically means incorporating everyday items into your toy box and kinky play time. We all know money is tight and there are times when you really want that cool new toy but just can’t afford it. What then? For the crafty and creative amongst us this may not pose much of a problem, but what about the rest of us that don’t have the funds or creativity to fill that ‘new toy void’? In this workshop we will discuss these topics and more. Wonder Woman will bring her own creative handmade toys and then guide you through making a new toy of your very own that you can take with you and start to play with right away!

Fire Safety: What Not To Do When Sh!t Explodes

Fire safety is how to keep a cool, level head when something goes south. In this course, we will cover how to handle dangerous situations and stay safe, as well as how to use those tools for each type of fire play. During the class and demo, when permitted, we will cover the materials, techniques, and tips I have picked up during my kink journey and professional education to execute a calm safety strategy when, not if, things go wrong. Come join us in learning about fire and what not to do when shit explodes.

Exploring Your Creature Energy

Circle up and let’s chirp, meow, quack, neigh, whinnie, grunt, and growl about what makes us unique with Mx Rebel and friends. Discussion will focus on how we can/do explore Our creature/primal energies through BDSM/kink.